Equisetum…………Turns out that Sister SLD……
….is originally from my home town, a point I don’t think she would mind me stating. Saw her several weeks, ago. She is doing well and looks very happy.
One of the most important things that everyone needs to do in all parts of life, not only in investing, is to put certain things into perspective. If one walks into a tavern it is not wise to try to drink the place dry just because another person is doing so. If one walks into a jewelry store, it is not wise for many of us to be buying $10,000 wristwatches just because others are. If one walks into a casino, it is not wise for most of us to be betting $1,000 a hand on blackjack just because someone else is (Last time I was in Vegas I was sitting at a $2 table and some guy sits down betting between $1,000 and $5,000 a hand. He was already down over $100,000 he said, and I offered to leave “3rd base.” He nicely said, “No, you’all just enjoy yourselves.” Within an hour he was back “up” in the green and elected to leave, but offered to buy all of us breakfast. I was still fretting over my $2 bets.) If somebody sees someone eating out of a dumpster for breakfast, one shouldn’t dive on in, IMO.
Every single investor needs to first, “Know thyself.” Are you conservative in your wants and needs? Are you a fly by the seat of your pants gambler? If you are very conservative in life in general, then you probably are very unlikely to jump in to follow somebody else’s moves- you are used to taking “baby steps.” If you are a fly by night gambler, then you are either very instinctive in your gambling skills, or you are very used to the merry-go-round ride of pain that “fly by the seat of your pants” will so often bring, and you need to get off the merry-go-round by coming up with a different strategy. I believe that Einstein said something like, “Doing the same things over ‘n over and expecting different results is the definition of insanity. As Clint Eastwood said, “A man (or woman) needs to know his limitations.” That extends in all directions.
Nobody, IMO, should ever simply take another’s word or another’s moves to follow without first completely understanding the circumstance of the situation, the upside of the situation, the downside of the situation, his own mentality in the situation, his own skill level in the situation, and have a decent feel for where things could come at him from left field in the situation. That goes far beyond investing…..into all parts of life. I certainly do not stick my hand into anything unless I feel like I know the above………and I can sometimes still get burned.
Thus, when I write an editorial, or in the present case it has taken a series of Parts to state my opinions- I try to give the complete underlying set of reasons why I believe what I think. At every turn I only hope to entice readers to think harder- to maybe see some aspect or angle that they might have missed or didn’t even know existed…….. that they can delve further into to find some meaning. Am I successful in doing that? I don’t know, but a writer never knows for sure. I do not simply toss out a potential target without all of the background thought that went into it.
In my dental practice I do not tell patients “what they have to do.” I take the time to explain all of the alternatives in treatment in regard to a problem, then answer any questions that they may have. Many times the patient will simply say, “You’re the doctor” because they are used to others telling them what they “have to do” in most medical situations. That is not what I was taught to do in Dental School. If a patient seems particularly unable to make a decision, then I will tell them what I would suggest if it was my Mother, my Daughter, or my Father……but I also explain why I would make that decision. Then the patient will make the decision on his own, and if he needs to take a few weeks to do it, so be it…………..if he needs to ask further questions, then he is welcome to call, anytime. IMO that is how things should be done. If a patient gets upset because I won’t make a decision for him, and he walks out…..so be it. My job is to educate the patient just as much as treating him, IMO.
Equisetum, one of the biggest rivers to cross in this Tent, IMO, is the vast differences among all of the occupants in terms of the level of their financial resources, the level of their financial knowledge, the level of their financial confidence, the level of their willingness to take financal risk……………take that together with the fact that there is a great diversity among tenters by being from a vast array of different socio-economic environments, from different ethnic backgrounds with different values, from different age groups of different levels of experience, etc………………This place is ripe for periodic misinterpretation of others. To top it off, many posters here have been pretty successful in life in general but come from so many different orientations since engineers think in much more concrete terms, where artists push the envelope in creative terms, where those who have had close significant others who lived through the last depression might think only in terms of safety, etc………….I think the different variations on thought are infinite.
I think the best we can hope to do is to ask questions of each other, to be willing to discuss issues as we go, because one question from one person no matter how silly it might sound to some, might take a hundred posters and lurkers one step closer to some particular point of understanding. Yet, we also see is that so many are enamored with charts. Why? I think it is because pictures are a favorite of most humans going all the way back to the caveman. In fact, a collage of pictures along with the written words of explanation to accompany the drawings is probably the fastest way to some comfort of three-dimensional understanding for most of us. In late 2001 I knew pretty well “zippo” about charts or technical indicators or anything related to market finances, but I really wanted to learn………for myself………for my children.
I apologize for this long rant, and no, I don’t have a particular place I am going with it, except to encourage others to continue to ask and to answer questions from and for each other so that the vast knowledge of the tent can be spread around as much as possible. Comminication can be a shaky thing at times, but don’t let it stop you from seeking the knowledge that you seek. In general, the tent will learn, together.
Take care,
GR