I served with Sgt. Mike Cottenden way back in the 80’s, when he and I were Master Corporals. He had trained me in many facets of the military as I rose through the ranks. His sudden death was a big shock to all who knew him. Way off topic for this site, but just a way for me to memorialize a great soldier. MadMike
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Reservist laid to rest. Sgt. Michael Cottenden remembered for spirit, contributions
Sgt. Mike Cottenden left the parade square on Thursday for the last time.
It, along with the rest of the Tommy Holmes VC Memorial Armoury, was a place he had come to know very well in the past three decades as a member of the Grey and Simcoe Foresters.
Many of his friends and loved ones were there to see him off. When he left, he did so on the shoulders of eight of those friends.
“He was always there to lend a hand or to be that shoulder to lean on,” Master Cpl. Darren Reid said during Cottenden’s funeral service.
“Rest in peace,” Reid concluded, his voice breaking, his eyes welling with tears. “You’ll be missed.”
Sgt. Cottenden died on Sunday after the van he was driving was in a collision with another van at a rural intersection southwest of Meaford. He was 53. The driver of the other van has been charged by police in connection with the crash.
Many of the hundreds of people who gathered for the service wept along with Reid, but they also smiled and laughed as they shared fond memories of Sgt. Cottenden. Reid elicited many of those smiles as he spoke of the sergeant’s unique vocabulary and his colourful personality.
Capt. Francesca Scorsone, the military padre who led the service, told the assembly that although Sgt. Cottenden lived only until age 53, it was a fulfilling life and one that touched many others.
“Mike knew how to live life. Mike lived life to its maximum,” she said. “We can be grateful that we knew him and that he blessed us with his presence.”
Sgt. Craig Hood agreed. “In his short life, he accomplished so many things,” he said in an interview. “When you look at it that way, it was a very full life. He did a lot in a short amount of time.”
Sgt. Cottenden joined the Grey and Simcoe Foresters in his hometown of Barrie in 1972. After moving to the Flesherton area several years later, he transferred to the regiment’s Owen Sound company
“He was asked to come to Owen Sound because they needed NCOs and some leadership here and that’s where he stayed for the remainder of his time,” Hood said of the man who was referred to in 2006 by Lt. Col. Bill Adcock, then the regiment’s commanding officer, as its “elder statesman.”
“I would consider him a pillar of the regiment. He was the guy that everybody of all ranks looked up to,” Hood said. “He was highly respected and he was the kind of guy that truly led by example.”
His physical fitness was remarkable for someone of any age, let alone a man in his 50s. Hood recalled a forestry accident last October, a fall from a ladder that almost killed Sgt. Cottenden.
“They weren’t sure he was going to walk again. A couple of weeks later he was walking. Three weeks later he was doing physical fitness training and cutting wood,” Hood marvelled.
In 2006, Sgt. Cottenden, then 51, decided he wanted to serve in Afghanistan. He had trained countless soldiers who had gone overseas to various theatres, and he wanted to do his part in an active war zone — so much so that he voluntarily dropped two ranks.
Hood said the only positions available at the time were for privates and corporals. The sergeant reverted to corporal as part of 1st Battalion of the Royal Canadian Regiment and got to Afghanistan, where he operated a light machine gun.
Not surprisingly, Hood said, he made a good and lasting impression on everyone who met him. Many of those comrades were in attendance on Thursday.
With the Foresters, Sgt. Cottenden specialized as an instructor in weaponry and vehicles. He also worked at ATC Meaford in range control, the inspection and maintenance of the centre’s firing ranges. That’s what he was doing on the overnight shift late Saturday and early Sunday.
He was in his element performing tasks like that, Hood said, adding his friend could easily have qualified to be a commissioned officer if that’s what he had desired.
“He never wanted to go higher than sergeant, because he always wanted to be in the fight. He wanted to be with the guys,” Hood said. “Some guys hit a certain age and move up the ranks and get easier jobs. Mike was never that guy.”
Hood and Reid were among the eight men who carried Sgt. Cottenden’s casket, draped in the Canadian Forces Ensign, on and off the parade square as a piper played laments. A 10-person firing party fired three volleys. A bugler played “Last Post.” Soldiers of all ranks, from private to colonel, sat and mingled together with civilians.
“It’s a true honour and a privilege to be able to say goodbye in this way,” Hood said.
“He was a veteran, he was a soldier and I couldn’t think of a more fitting or appropriate send-off for a man like him.”
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